FOR YOU WIFE AND WIFE CANDIDATE. (Material of reflection)

Woman as wife, has a door in her house. That door can either take him to heaven or throw him to hell. The door is only one, namely HUSBAND. The obedient wife to her husband, later has a position like a man who died martyred in the war in the way of Allah.

Every wife serves her husband, then his deeds will exalt him in the sight of God. The most important act of worship for a wife is to serve her husband and children. More important than any sunnah worship. Because it is a loss for women who are busy with zikr, but her husband abandoned not thought. Busy with al-Quran but her husband was never provided a meal. Busy with maulud assembly, but with her husband always a war of mouth. Arguing, talking harshly, hurting him, looking at him with low eyes, raising his voice .....
Laa haula wa laa quwwata illa billaaaah
O wives .....
There is no use for your prayers.
There is no use for the assemblies you attend
Nothing to please
There is no use for your dhikr
Not for your hajj
There is no use for reading your Koran
No use for your alms
Before you apologize to your husband.
Do not hurt him though sometimes he has weakness here and there.
The Prophet has explained, the woman who made the face of her husband changed, then will not be accepted prayer even though a span.
In history, the woman who refused to serve her husband at night, cursed by angels until the morning. While there is a chance, change the attitude of being good.
While there is an opportunity to apologize. Be a good wife.
Do not need much worship other than that If that is what you are headed is heaven. That's the way.
Seek the pleasure of your husband.

May God save us all from acts that can bring His wrath. Whether we realize it or not we realize it.

Hopefully useful.